Arriving in a new country can feel exciting — and a little confusing. Australia is known for being relaxed and friendly, but there are social norms and workplace expectations that may be different from what you are used to.


This guide explains how Australians typically interact at work and in everyday life, so you can feel more confident when meeting people, attending appointments, or starting a new job.

How to behave in Australia


Understanding Australian Communication Style


Australians are generally direct, practical and informal in their communication. This does not mean they are rude — it usually reflects a cultural preference for honesty and clarity.


Do:

Be clear and straightforward.

Share ideas confidently, but calmly.

Use humour where appropriate.

Speak in a friendly and respectful way.


Don’t:

Oversell yourself or exaggerate achievements.

Use aggressive sales tactics.

Act overly formal or self-important.

Interrupt others while they are speaking.


Australians often value modesty. Even successful people may downplay their achievements. If someone makes a self-critical joke about themselves, it is usually light-hearted. You do not need to criticise them further — simply smile or respond positively.

Debate is also common in workplaces. People may challenge ideas openly. This is usually about the idea, not the person. Responding calmly — and sometimes with humour — is appreciated.


Business Culture in Australia


Australian workplaces are often collaborative. Even senior managers may consult staff before making decisions.


Key points to remember:


Decision-making can take time because teams are consulted.

Being patient is seen as professional.

It is acceptable for someone to say “no” clearly and directly.

Standard business hours are typically Monday to Friday, 9:00am to 5:00pm.

If you are travelling to Australia for business, quieter months are generally March to November. December to February is summer holiday season, and some offices may operate with few staffs.


If you are meeting for the First Time


When meeting someone in Australia for the first time:


A handshake with the right hand is standard.

Physical greetings such as hugging or kissing are uncommon in professional settings.

People often use first names, even at work.

Eye contact shows respect and attentiveness.

Personal questions about age, income, religion, marital status or finances may make some people uncomfortable — especially in first meetings.


Politeness and Everyday Manners


Politeness matters in Australia, even though the culture feels relaxed.

Common expressions:

“Please”

“Thank you”

“Excuse me”

“Sorry”

Not using these basic expressions can be seen as rude.


Queuing (Lining Up)

If there is a queue — at a bus stop, shop, bank or government office — join at the end and wait your turn. Skipping the line is considered disrespectful.


Being On Time

Arriving on time for meetings, interviews and appointments is important.


If you will be late:

Call ahead.

Apologise.

Reschedule if necessary.


Failing to notify someone — especially for medical or professional appointments — may affect how reliable you are seen to be.


Understanding Invitations and “RSVP”


If you receive an invitation with “RSVP” and a date, the host is asking you to confirm whether you will attend.

You should respond before the stated date. This helps the organiser plan food, seating and arrangements.

Behaviour That Is Illegal or Unacceptable

Some behaviours are not only impolite but also against the law in many areas.

Avoid:

Littering

Spitting in public

Urinating or defecating outside designated facilities

Using offensive gestures toward others

Local councils can issue fines for public nuisance behaviour.

Dress and Appearance in Australia

Australia is culturally diverse, and clothing styles vary widely.

People often dress:

Casually for comfort

According to climate (which can be very hot in summer)

Formally for business or special occasions

Traditionally for cultural or religious events


There are no general government laws regulating everyday clothing. However, certain workplaces require specific attire for safety or uniform purposes. For example:

Construction workers wear safety boots and hard hats.

Police and military personnel wear uniforms.

Some hospitality venues may require neat or smart dress.

Sun Protection Is Important


Australia has higher rates of skin cancer in the world. Wearing hats, sunglasses and protective clothing is strongly encouraged — especially in summer. Many schools require children to wear hats outdoors.

People Meet in Australia

Understanding Australian Slang

Australian English includes many shortened words and informal expressions. For example:

“Footy” = football

“Arvo” = afternoon

“Brekkie” = breakfast

If you do not understand a phrase, it is perfectly fine to ask for clarification.

Common Phrases You Might Hear

“Bring a plate”

This means bring a dish of food to share with others — not an empty plate.

“BYO” (Bring Your Own)

At events or some restaurants, this means you bring your own drinks. Some venues charge a “corkage” fee for bring your own alcohol.

“Open door policy”

In workplaces, this means employees can speak to managers without appointments. No need a prior appointment.  

Informal goodbyes

Australians often use relaxed expressions such as “See ya” or “Catch ya later.” These are friendly and do not always mean a specific future meeting.

Body Language and Personal Space

Always, while communicating your body language constructs an important role.

Maintain comfortable eye contact.

Stand about an arm’s length away during conversation.

Avoid standing too close unless you know the person well.

Offensive hand gestures — such as raising the middle finger — are considered disrespectful.


Frequently Asked Questions

1. What is considered rude in Australia?

Talking about someone’s income, weight or age in casual conversation may be seen as impolite. Public spitting, littering and aggressive behaviour are also frowned upon. Always use “please” and “thank you” when asking for help.

2. Are there any gestures that are offensive?

Yes. Raising the middle finger or using certain hand signs aggressively can be offensive. Waving hello with an open hand is normal and friendly.

3. What are Australians generally like?

Australians are often described as modest, informal and humorous. Self-deprecating jokes and light banter are common. People tend to value fairness and equality in social and workplace settings.

4. Is “thumbs up” rude in Australia?

No. In Australia, a thumbs-up gesture is usually positive. However, meanings can vary in other countries, so be aware of cultural differences when travelling.


Final Thoughts

Adjusting to a new culture takes time. The good news is that Australians are generally understanding and welcoming toward newcomers. If you are respectful, polite, open-minded and a learner, you will find easier to build friendships, succeed at work and feel at home in Australia. Small things — arriving on time, using polite words, respecting queues and communicating clearly — make a big difference.